tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post590050478622340786..comments2023-06-21T07:17:57.362-07:00Comments on Sue Whitcombe: Reflections on Fathers’ DayAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16257516672019645651noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-58778312612444707512013-06-18T04:27:47.131-07:002013-06-18T04:27:47.131-07:00Tim's friend, Ivan Young, mentioned above, has...Tim's friend, Ivan Young, mentioned above, has since been in touch with me. In his reply he states: <br /><br />why did the court see fit to order no contact for Tim Haries? fortunately, the entire case was recently tested in the royal court of appeal so it isnt under the same secretive limitations as the family courts.<br />............<br />the judge at the final hearing commented that he did not believe the allegations made against Tim and the judge at the court of appeal stated ( and I also have the transcript of this hearing) " very clearly, the mother has completely alienated you from your children".<br /><br />My thoughts continue to be with Tim.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16257516672019645651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-48004887223197976742013-06-18T01:45:11.260-07:002013-06-18T01:45:11.260-07:00Residence should be with the parent who is best ab...Residence should be with the parent who is best able to facilitate a child's holistic development and a meaningful relationship with both parents and families.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16257516672019645651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-14166511525881211922013-06-18T01:43:28.538-07:002013-06-18T01:43:28.538-07:00Thanks Garry - lost time can never fully be regain...Thanks Garry - lost time can never fully be regained. Any break in contact, such as that which automatically occurs in contested proceedings inevitably causes damage. I don't believe that we can not ensure the safety of our children whilst maintaining their right to contact and a meaningful relationship with both parents. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16257516672019645651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-77091679656088617502013-06-18T01:39:46.385-07:002013-06-18T01:39:46.385-07:00There is much that needs changing - and the secrec...There is much that needs changing - and the secrecy is one of these. We can still protect our children whilst making the facts of the case known. When every other profession and sphere is pushing for greater transparency, overhaul is long overdue.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16257516672019645651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-4254177721298967502013-06-17T15:39:11.570-07:002013-06-17T15:39:11.570-07:00Interesting blog Sue and am in full agreement with...Interesting blog Sue and am in full agreement with you.<br /><br />Best....Eric T.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-89847146609549804162013-06-17T01:58:48.149-07:002013-06-17T01:58:48.149-07:00Email just received from my dad
Hi. Just read you...Email just received from my dad<br /><br />Hi. Just read your blog, Mum drew my attention to it. Now very weepy.<br />Well done, an excellent article and I really do understand what your subject is all about.<br /><br />Love you so much dad xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16257516672019645651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-24754611797571467002013-06-16T15:48:25.992-07:002013-06-16T15:48:25.992-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16257516672019645651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-52706764908000433332013-06-16T15:30:19.166-07:002013-06-16T15:30:19.166-07:00Each time I think I've seen it all, and that I...Each time I think I've seen it all, and that I could not be shocked by yet another dispicable act of family law, another comes along. I know a little of Tim's case and it is appalling whats been done to his children and to him in the name of their 'best interests'. The only interests served here have been Tim's ex who has made her manipulation abundantly clear - he can see the kids only if she gets what she wants. Well, thats not looking after their best interests and if she cannot be compelled to do so then maybe transfer of residence should be considered.Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17568330175371721038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-24847429938505087902013-06-16T15:02:17.168-07:002013-06-16T15:02:17.168-07:00Garry, I entirely agree - it's a massive human...Garry, I entirely agree - it's a massive human rights atrocity, hidden in plain view.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05310047971369114332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-27788512434217560552013-06-16T15:01:05.798-07:002013-06-16T15:01:05.798-07:00Garry, I agree entirely - it's a massive human...Garry, I agree entirely - it's a massive human rights atrocity, hidden in plain view.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05310047971369114332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-75239503115009752692013-06-16T12:55:44.732-07:002013-06-16T12:55:44.732-07:00excellent blog Sue. The trouble is Dads having fun...excellent blog Sue. The trouble is Dads having fun filled days think "this won't happen to me", like I did many moons ago, but it did and the pain still haunts me, even though I saw both my children today. It took 25 years for the Hillsborough scandal to finally be accepted as a total cover up. Family law is worse as you can't even get access to cover anything up. I do hope I am still around to see the alienated children and parents open up the biggest scandal I believe this country does not even know about. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-29925354407657438132013-06-16T08:41:04.590-07:002013-06-16T08:41:04.590-07:00I know Tim Haries well, he is now even closer to m...I know Tim Haries well, he is now even closer to me and a hero.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-56422515236793550342013-06-16T08:39:14.606-07:002013-06-16T08:39:14.606-07:00Tim is a good freind of mine, and now he is even c...Tim is a good freind of mine, and now he is even closer, and a hero to me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326143738886180947.post-25422729783295411152013-06-16T06:09:47.293-07:002013-06-16T06:09:47.293-07:00Great article, Sue. I know a bit about this case ...Great article, Sue. I know a bit about this case and enough to know that Tim and his children have been gravely, gravely wronged and that the system has behaved appallingly and covered up its failings. It is nonsense to suggest that the secrecy protects children - it often condemns them to injustice and abuse, and the nonsense is exposed when, as in a recent case, the children are adults but the secrecy is still enforced.Forsetihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16097518084376128891noreply@blogger.com